...Falling down is not a defeat...defeat is when your refuse to get up... !  

Posted by montel

Remember these always in life ;-)

...Prayer is not a spare wheel that you
pull out when YOU ARE IN TROUBLE,
It is a steering wheel that keeps you
on the right path throughout your life.


...Do not look at physical appearances,
they can be deceiving.

Do not look at riches,
For they are only temporary.
Look for someone who makes you smile.

...Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort in your life makes all the difference.

...If a drop of water falls in a lake there is no identity.But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it will shine like a pearl...so choose the best place where you would shine... ;-)

...Falling down is not a defeat...defeat is when your refuse to get up... !

...Never take some one for granted...Hold every person Close to your Heart, because you might wake up one day and realise that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones."

Batu--Sweet Charity..Rimba Bara (2005)  

Posted by montel

Am F
Sudah menjadi resmi manusia
G C
Ingin hidup seribu tahun lagi
Dm
Seperti batu-batu
Am
Setulus putih hati
Em Am
Melihat kurniaan Tuhan

Am F
Lihat batu-batu diiringan jalan
G C
Telanjang disinari dan dibasahi hujan
Dm
Terbiar detik pagi
Am
Tangisan mengiringi
Em G C
Lihat anak kecil hadiri
Dm G Em
Sampai akhir nanti

F G Em Am
Batu sayang kau tak boleh berkata
Dm G
Semuanya kau lihat
C Em
Walau kau tak bermata

F G Em Am
Terhiburlah dunia engkau dicipta
Dm G
Hingga akhir dunia
C Em
Engkau kekal jua....

kod lagu Pembakar Perasaan - Search  

Posted by montel

Aku pakai kod d.


D D#
Berhentilah kata ku berhenti
D D#
Terlalu sakit menyusuk hati
A C B# ACB#
Berhenti lah dirimu
G A D
Mebakar perasaan ku

D D#
Tak dapatkah kau mengenaliku
D D#
Apa yang ku suka dan ku benci
A C B# ACB#
Tak dapatlah diriku
G A D
Mempelajari mahumu

Bridge
B# C A D
Sebagaimana ku mempelajari mahumu
B# G A
Seharusnya kau jua begitu
B# C A D
Barulah kita bergelar bahagia
B# G A
Yang saling mengerti oh kasih

Chorus
F C
Jangan kau memuja ribut dan taufan
G A
Jangan kau memuja gelombang peraasaan
B# F G
Kerana kita terpisah dari kebehagianan
A
Yang akan membakar diri

Cameron Highland...day trip ...  

Posted by montel

Hari ni di rancang dengan baik. bermula dari rumah jam 8.30 pagi, kami bersarapan di Kuang. Kemudian terus masuk highway dari Hospital Sg Buloh. Masuk je highway, jalan jamm. Keluar di Bukit beruntung. Then lalu jalan lama...sampai kat bidor..nampak satu kereta tu ..macam kenal..

betullah budak office. lunch sama ..then masuk tol bidor..

keluar kat tapah..

naik atas. Masa ni baru lah start cari hotel . hotel yang biasa kita orang duduk , full house. then tanya Heritage, ada lagi la , harga dalam 230. tapi pasal dah 2 kali duduk sana , maka kali ni konon tanya lah strawberry park. bilik yang ada rm700 :). then tanya equotorial, full house. Rosa pasadena , RM550. ermm....banyak tu

then teruskan kan jugak la.. sampai kat Ringlet ok lagi. Lepas tu, sampai kat Teh Boh punya rest area tu..sampai la ke TAnah rata, jalan sesak. Aku dah tension . Tak sangka sampai teruk camni jam jalan tu.
pastu sampai ke Berinchang lagi worst. Jalan dah jadi satu hala. Tempat yang pasar malam tu langsung tak de parking.

kita orang naik lagi . berenti makan sebelum equotorial . Jalan jam lagi.. tension tension..

then terus lagi sampai simpang kg raja.

turun hala ke simpang pulai.
berenti makan durian kat tepi jalan.

terus balik kl

sampai rumah 9.30 malam.

Total Mileage 500KM. Minyak RM70. Tol ..banyak jugak la..

bengang giler.. tak sangka kat Cameron Highland jam sampai teruk camtu. Sapa sapa yang pergi sana masa ni faham la kot camner teruknya jalan.

ni belum pasar malam lagi weekend ni .

adios

Interview Program Ulul Albab di MRSM Gemencheh  

Posted by montel

lokasi gemenceh kalau ikut google maps, ialah di antara Tampin dan juga Gemas. Jarak dari Rawang ialah lebih kurang 220KM .

sampai kat Gemencheh dalam pukul 11 am.

Kitaorang check in kat Gemas Rest House. RM70 untuk bilik biasa. kalau VIP tu RM120, tapi memandangkan kitaorang nak daily-usage je, maka ambik yang biasa je :) jimat pakcik ooo... pakcik kayooo

Sobrie start interview pukul 2.00. Mak bapak di jemput ke Dewan besar untuk sessi taklimat program Ulul Albab.

program ni sebenarnya ialah macam mrsm biasa tetapi..jeng jeng jeng.. ada additional aliran iaitu Tahfiz Al Quran. Program ni perintis di MRSM Gemencheh tapi dah setahun lebih di MRSM Kota Putera, Besut.

Mission nya ialah untuk memastikan student mendapat kecemerlangan di dalam bidang akademik dan juga Hafal Alquran dalam masa 3 Tahun.

so, interviewnya meliputi,

1. Hafazan Al quran.
dalam masa 30 minit, dia akan kasi satu Mukasurat dalam Al Quran secara rawak dan dia suruh hafal. Satu muka surat lebih kurang 16 baris, dan markah di beri mengikut keupayaan pelajar untuk menghafal seberapa banyak ayat dalam masa yang di tetapkan.

2. Interview session

soalan yang di tanya ialah, sanggup ke student tu masuk programm ni ,nak tau kenapa ,
sebab program ni start at 5AM tiap pagi , sampai 11 pm.
http://www.mrsmkm.edu.my/gemencheh/ululalbab.htm

3. Aptitude Test.

ada 20 minit dan kena jawap 50 Soalan.

4. Jawi

kemahiran menulis jawi ke rumi vice versa.( yang ni takde di beritahu secara detail)


Sesi di jalan kan dalam masa 2 jam lebih kurang. Ada 6 sessi selama 3 hari.

yang datang adalah lebih kurang 1360 orang

yang nak di pilih ialah seramai 180 orang

yang di pecahkan sebanyak 90 lelaki dan 90 perempuan.

speechless.....

goat or sheep  

Posted by montel

so, in life, you can either be a goat (very different compare to other people, and normally the leader) or you can be a sheep (same as everyone else, normally a follower)
to gain acceptance from majority of the people, you have to be a sheep
to stand out from the crowd, you have to be a goat
it's up to you

How to Detect Lies  

Posted by montel

source
http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies.php

Become a Lie Detector
how to see a fake smile
Introduction to Detecting Lies:

The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.

Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.
Signs of Deception:
Body Language of Lies:

• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.

• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.

• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.
Emotional Gestures & Contradiction

• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.

• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.

• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”

• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.

Also see our article on micro expressions & lying.

Interactions and Reactions

• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.

• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.

• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.
Verbal Context and Content

• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”

•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”

• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.

• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.

• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.

• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.

• The use of distancing language. out to wikipedia
Related Books:


Never be Lied to Again



Body Language
Other signs of a lie:

• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.

• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.
Final Notes:

Obviously, just because someone exhibits one or more of these signs does not make them a liar. The above behaviors should be compared to a persons base (normal) behavior whenever possible.

Most lie detecting experts agree that a combination of body language and other cues must be used to make an educated guess on whether someone is telling the truth or a lie.

Selamat Menyambut Maal Hijrah  

Posted by montel

hari jumaat yang indah.

untuk sekian kali nya , ianya masih mengunjungi kita dan kita masih lagi bernyawa untuk menjalani kehidupan yang amat singkat ini.

sekarang ni , aku terlalu sibuk. tetapi aku masih ada masa nak update blog...hehehe
bukan apa..perasaan kalau tak diluahkan ..akan menjadi satu bebanan..

let it go ..

ok , Semalam , Sobrie telah khatam AL Quran. Alhamdullilah,, sempat jugak di habiskan sebelum melangkah ke sekolah menengah. Isnin ni dia ada interview di MRSM Gemenceh. Harapan aku memang tinggi .kalau dapat, memang best giler.

then Inah pun tinggal beberapa hari je lagi untuk habis kursus. penant seh , sehari berulang dari kajang ke rawang. aku pun dah naik penat ni driving untuk 3 minggu straight ni.

ok...tu je la update. ok ye.. aku dah dapat beberapa staff baru yang mantap. yang masa masa appraisal ni , faham faham la ye..

copy assignment orang..masa present kantoi  

Posted by montel

tu je yang aku boleh cakap. ada orang copy assignment orang lain, then masa present ..kantoi...

pasal tak tau apa

pastu tak nak ambik tanggungjawap

chicken out...

Taska Permata Hatiku  

Posted by montel

Inah tengah dalam usaha untuk buat taska. Sekarang ni kursus 15 hari kat Kajang under JKM. Baby taruk kat taska tu la :D ialah, sendiri punya, so ,suka hatilah kan..

tak..untuk sementara nak ambik lesen ni ..jalan kan je ..
cabaran pun banyak

semoga berjaya ..